Vegans, Vegetarians, and meat eaters, unite! I NEED YOUR HELP?

Please, give this some thought before answering..its really deep, and I need help. Please, no bashers for either side......My 12 year old daughter has been sickly for most of her life, right from the time she fed. About a year ago, through the grace of an understanding and compionate doctor, we learned that she was allergic to wheat, soy, eggs, milk, dairy, peanuts, avacado, tomato and had a very rare condition that makes it impossible for her to digest animal protein in any form. Sure enough, when we eliminated these things from her diet, she healed, and is now a thriving honor roll student-even the slightest hint of any of these allergens, renders her spacey, rashy, and unable to connect to the real world. Too much! Anyway, the situation is this: she ( and me) are being labeled "crunchy earth mom and child"!