Am i a people pleaser?

i have many different personas unique to different people. like around a gossipy person, i will gossip (even though i hate it). pretty much whatever persona i think the other person "likes" the best. i may act "intelligent" around one person, "ditzy" around another, etc. i have a really hard time rejecting any invitation to do anything even if i really don't want to. i hate conflict and avoid it at all costs. i am too afraid tell people what i really feel about them and i will all my hurt inside. sometimes i become very overwhelmed with how others "want me to think, do, etc". people say i am "too nice" and i feel taken advantage of (especially with friends that i let talk constantly to me without getting to say anything myself). and i don't think anyone who knows me really knows what i want, what i hope and dream for. i sometimes get so caught up in all this that i forget who i am and that i matter just as much as the next person. are these tendencies of people-pleasers?